TLF Gems Newsletter November 2025

Your monthly CX and insight newsletter from TLF Research

There's one target and everybody's shooting at it...what if I just invent another target?

Brian Eno

How important is differentiation?

The Ehrenberg-Bass approach to marketing (as popularised by Byron Sharp's "How Brands Grow") argues that a differentiated proposition is far less important than distinctive brand assets, and they have the data to back it up (at least in some markets). Their focus is on being easily noticed and easy to buy, not on being meaningfully different.

So are we barking up the wrong tree with the customer-led approach that we advocate?

I'd argue that Sharp's work focuses too much on FMCG markets, categories where there is little true differentiation. If you can offer an experience that is genuinely different, and consistently meets the needs of your target customers better than anyone else, then that's far more powerful than having a memorable logo.

Distinctiveness helps people notice you; differentiation gives them a reason to choose you.

Thanks for reading,

Stephen

Here are 6 things we think are worth your time this month


What's In It For Me?

A typically great post from Dave Trott about the importance of understanding what the other person wants before getting into a negotiation, and an example of his creative thinking in selling his books! "If you set the game up right, everybody wins."

How Do You Identify A Good Manager?

Really interesting report on an experiment looking at what managers contribute to their teams. Good managers are important, but the worst managers are the ones who want to be in charge. "We find that manager contributions matter greatly for team success, and that people who want to be in charge perform worse than randomly assigned managers."

Only 18% Aware Of Brands' Purpose

Interesting factoid from Marketing Week - data from the Ehrenberg-Bass institute (yes, them again) shows that even for 14 brands held to be very good at deploying a brand purpose strategy, fewer than 1 in 5 consumers can recognise it. Taking into account potential false positives the real figure is more like 1 in 10. "More than half of the brands included have communicated their purpose for more than 20 years."

Hats, Haircuts, And Tattoos

This is a useful metaphor, via LinkedIn. We can often get stuck because we spend too much time debating the right thing to do, but on the other hand we don't want to rush a potentially critical decision. Here's a quick tool to help you decide how much data and thinking you need to do before making a decision - are you getting a new hat, a new haircut, or a new tattoo?

UX So Bad That It's Illegal

Thoughtful post from Pavel Samsonov about the worrying shift away from user focus amongst the tech giants. There is definitely a need for regulation here, but I also believe that we need to win the argument about the ROI of designing around customers, and it's not just about preventing lawsuits! "These lawsuits provide an excellent example of the kind of expensive disasters that investing into proper user research and design can prevent."

What I'm Reading: Antidote to the Cult of Performance

This book was mentioned to me by a client in a depth interview (one of the best things about my job!) Olivier Hamant is a biologist who writes about what we can learn from nature to build resilient organisations. It's obvious that resilience and efficiency tend to pull us in different directions, but how often do we explicitly consider that in our strategies? "...robustness is built first and foremost on heterogeneity, redundancy, randomness, waste, slowness, incoherence...in short, robustness is the antithesis of performance."